Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman on Interventions in Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy

January 31, 2010 at 4:29 pm | Posted in adoption, Center for Family Development, Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman, dyadic developmental psychotherapy, orphan, orphanage | 1 Comment
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Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy interventions flow from several theoretical and empirical lines. Attachment theory (Bowlby, 1980, Bowlby, 1988) provides the theoretical foundation for Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy. Early trauma disrupts the normally developing attachment system by creating distorted internal working models of self, others, and caregivers. This is one rationale for treatment in addition to the necessity for sensitive care-giving. As O’Connor & Zeanah (2003) have stated, “A more puzzling case is that of an adoptive/foster caregiver who is ‘adequately’ sensitive but the child exhibits attachment disorder behavior; it would seem unlikely that improving parental sensitive responsiveness (in already sensitive parent) would yield positive changes in the parent-child relationship.” Treatment is necessary to directly address the rigid and dysfunctional internalized working models that traumatized children with attachment disorders have developed.

Current thinking and research on the neurobiology of interpersonal behavior (Siegel, 1999, Siegel, 2000, Siegel, 2002, Schore, 2001) is another part of the foundation on which Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy rests.

The primary approach is to create a secure base in treatment (using techniques that fit with maintaining a healing PACE (Playful, Accepting, Curious, and Empathic) and at home using principals that provide safe structure and a healing PLACE (Playful, Loving, Acceptance, Curious, and Empathic). Developing and sustaining an attuned relationship within which contingent collaborative communication occurs helps the child heal. Coercive interventions such as rib-stimulation, holding-restraining a child in anger or to provoke an emotional response, shaming a child, using fear to elicit compliance, and interventions based on power/control and submission, etc., are never used and are inconsistent with a treatment rooted in attachment theory and current knowledge about the neurobiology of interpersonal behavior.

Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman is a leading practitioner of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP)

Arthur Becker-Weidman Returns from Finland and the Czech Republic

December 16, 2009 at 2:58 pm | Posted in Center for Family Development, Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman, dyadic developmental psychotherapy | Leave a comment
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Dr. Becker-Weidman consults with several child treatment agencies, school districts, and departments of social services in the United States, Canada, Singapore, Finland, Australia, and the Czech Republic.

Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP)

November 29, 2009 at 12:43 am | Posted in Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman, dyadic developmental psychotherapy | Leave a comment
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Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy is so named as is based on the premise that the development of children and youth is dependent upon and highly influenced by the nature of the parent-child relationship. Such a relationship, especially with regard to the child’s attachment security and emotional development, requires ongoing, dyadic (reciprocal) experiences between parent and child. The parent is attuned to the child’s subjective experience, makes sense of those experiences, and communicates them back to the child. This is done with playfulness, acceptance, curiosity, and empathy. These interactions are contingent, i.e., when the parent initiates an interaction, the child’s response determines the parent’s subsequent action based on the the feedback of the child’s subjective experience of the first action. In that way, the parent constantly fine-tunes his/her interactions to best fit the needs of the child. The primary context in which such dyadic interchanges occur is one of real and felt safety. Without such actual and perceived safety, the child’s neurological, emotional, cognitive, and behavioral functioning is compromised.

When a child’s early attachment history consists of abuse, neglect, and/or multiple placements, s/he has failed to experience the dyadic interaction that are necessary for normal development and s/he often has a reduced readiness and ability to participate in such experiences. Many children, when placed in a foster or adoptive home that provides appropriate parenting, are able to learn, day by day, how to engage in and benefit from the he dyadic experiences provided by the new parent. Other children, have been much more traumatized and compromised in those aspects of their development that require these dyadic experiences, have much greater difficulty responding to their new parents. For these children, specialized parenting and treatment is often required.

Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman is a leading practitioner of DDP.

Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman Addresses “The Homework Problem”

October 31, 2009 at 11:39 pm | Posted in Center for Family Development, Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman, dyadic developmental psychotherapy, homework, therapy | Leave a comment
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Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman, founder of the Center for Family Development, addresses homework issues:

“Mom, I need help with math!!” “OK, honey, I’ll be right there.” Five minutes later the child is near tears and screaming, “You’re not helping me!!”You fume, “I’m not going to just give you the answers.” Does this sound familiar?Homework battles are an all too familiar family event.

What can you do?

How can you help your child so that each of you feels good about the experience?

The concept of “units-of-concern” is an effective way to resolving this problem. Every problem can be thought of as having ten units-of-concern that get distributed among those involved.The more units of concern a person carries, the more responsibility for the problem and the more worry the person carries. So, for example, if you are deeply worried about your child getting his or her homework done on time and about your child doing well, maybe you are carrying five or six units of concern.Your spouse may be involved a little bit and so carries three units of concern about getting homework done. That leaves only one unit of concern for your child.

So, what do you do to shift the units of concern onto the shoulders of the person who should be carrying them?

First, you have to determine who owns the problem.In this instance, it is your child’s homework, not yours, so the problem belongs to your child.

Second, you determine if there are natural consequences for the child that will occur is the problem is not solved. In this case, there are clear natural consequences for your child.If he does not do his homework, he will get a poor grade on it.“Wait a minute,” you say.“If she doesn’t do her homework, she’ll get a bad grade and then if that keeps happening, she may fail.”The bad news is that when you allow your child to make choices, he will make some poor choices that have negative consequences for the child.

However, that is how we learn, by making choices, some of which work and some of which don’t.If you try to teach your child to ride a bicycle and never let go, the child will never learn to balance. However, on the way to good bike riding, most children fall a few times.Even if the worst happens and the child fails, say fifth grade, the good news is that there is fifth grade every year.

Harsh as that may seem, better to learn these lessons while the cost of a bad decision is cheap, than have to learn the lesson when the child is older and the costs greater.Third, you are now ready to handle the problem with your child by distributing the units of concern onto the appropriate set of shoulders. In this example, you let your child know that you are willing to help with homework, when it is convenient for you. You may set a time when you are available, or have some other set of parameters.

When your child asks for help, you provide the assistance (not the answers) as long as the child is respectful and fun to be around. As soon as the child stops being respectful or fun to be around, you calmly get up and say as you are leaving, “I’m done for now, feel free to ask for my help again, when you (are more respectful) (can talk with me quietly) (are able to use good words and not nasty words).” The conversation and interaction are done. When you child comes in later and asks, “What am I going to do?If I can’t do my homework I’ll fail.”You can say something like, “Wow, that’s quite a problem you have there.What do you think is the solution?”If your child asks politely for your help again and demonstrates that he or she will work with you, then go ahead.I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised by how quickly this method will eliminate battles and make homework something you and your child can actually share as a positive experience.

Arthur Becker-Weidman
, Ph.D. is Director of The Center For Family Development, an Attachment Center in Western New York that specializes in the treatment of adoptive families and their children. He can be reached at 716-810-0790.Art was adopted as a child.He and his spouse, Susan are the parents of three children, one adopted internationally.Dr. Becker-Weidman achieved Diplomate status from the American Board of Psychological Specialties in Child Psychology.He is a Diplomate of the American College of Forensic Examiners.Dr. Becker-Weidman is an associate clinical professor at the State University of New York at Buffalo.He has over 50 publications and presentations at local, regional, and national organizations about adoption and child treatment issues.

Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman Responds…

October 10, 2009 at 5:02 pm | Posted in Center for Family Development, Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman, dyadic developmental psychotherapy | 3 Comments
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My work with, and research on, children with disorders of attachment was mischaracterized in the article, “Coercive Restraint Therapies,” by Jean Mercer, which was also previously published on the Web. The techniques that Mercer describes as CRT [coercive restraint therapy] are never appropriate, and I do not use such methods in my work. I practice Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, which is a relationship-focused approach based on attachment and developmental theories, for treating children with disorders of attachment. Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy’s central therapeutic mechanism is the development and maintenance of a contingent collaborative and affectively attuned relationship between therapist and child, between caregiver and child, and between therapist and caregiver. These principles, and the therapeutic approach that is Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, are generally understood to be within the mainstream of current thinking in the field of attachment research and practice.

I would like to draw your attention to several inaccuracies and misrepresentations about my work in the Mercer article. Although Mercer is entitled to her opinions and positions, her misrepresentation of my work as CRT indicates is a substantial lapse in the monitoring of accuracy and truth. I am surprised at this oversight.

Specifically, Mercer states, “Two simple before-and-after studies claiming to support CRT have been posed on the Internet . . . The first, by Becker-Weidman, administered the RADQ and a behavior checklist to parents of 34 children before and after CRT. Becker-Weidman concluded that CRT had caused changes in the children.” Mercer goes on to state (paraphrasing) that the significant differences between the test scores were confounded by simultaneous maturational change and natural variations in behavior because parents are most likely to bring children for treatment when their behavior is at its worst, so that spontaneous improvement occurs during the time of treatment but not because of treatment.

The Mercer article has several inaccuracies and misrepresentations regarding my study.

First, my study does not claim to support CRT. It does claim to support Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy. “The study examined the effects of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy on children with trauma-attachment disorders who meet the DSM IV criteria for Reactive Attachment Disorder.” This study is briefly excerpted with a few tables on my Web site http://www.center4familydevelop.com/prelimanaryresults.htm and http://www.center4familydevelop.com/outcomecontrol.htm. It is further elaborated in print. In December of this year, the complete study will be published in a professional peer-reviewed journal, Child and Adolescent Social Work Journal. (Until then, the manuscript is available from the author).

Second, my study did not use a “behavior checklist,” but used the Achenbach, which is a well-researched instrument with excellent reliability and validity.

Third, Mercer states that I “administered the RADQ and a behavior checklist to parents of 34 children before and after CRT.” As stated above, the treatment was not CRT but Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy. More disturbing is the omission by Mercer of the fact that there was a control group of 30 children in the study. The inclusion of the control group was specifically to address issues of maturation and the possibility of spontaneous improvement. The study found that “Significant reductions were achieved in all measures studied . . . There were not changes in the usual-care group subjects (who received play therapy, individual therapy, family therapy, and other treatment from other providers not at the Center For Family Development).[5]” Both groups showed no differences on a variety of demographic variables measured, and they showed no differences on their pretest scores on the Achenbach. The 2 groups’ post-test scores were based on instruments completed over 1 year after treatment ended, about 2 years after the initial test scores. The use of the control group, which was matched with the treatment group, makes Mercer’s statement regarding maturational change and change caused “during the time of treatment but not because of treatment,” wrong.

Mercer’s characterization of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy as CRT is untrue, inaccurate, and misleading. Mercer defines CRT as:

. . . alternate mental health interventions that are generally directed at adopted or foster children, that are claimed to cause alterations in emotional attachment, and that employ physically intrusive methods . . . CRT practices involve the use of restraint as a tool of treatment rather than simply as a safety device . . . and the withholding of food (italics added).

Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy has nothing in common with CRT, as I demonstrate below.

No responsible provider of therapy could sanction the use of physically intrusive actions, intentionally causing pain, affective dysregulation, or the withholding of food as therapeutic. “The use of physical restraint and other coercive practices by CRT advocates stands in the sharpest possible contrast to conventional mental health practices.”

Mercer’s misrepresentations and inaccuracies regarding my work and Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy are the following.

I do not practice CRT. My work is Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy and not CRT. Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy does not meet Mercer’s defining characteristics of CRT for the following reasons.

Alternate mental health practice: Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy is based on generally accepted theory and practices. Hughes, the developer of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, states, “In looking for treatment strategies that are congruent with how secure attachments are facilitated, it is immediately obvious that the ‘holding and coercive therapies’ described by O’Connor and Zeanah have no place.” Dr. Hughes goes on to list 7 principles of treatment for children with attachment disorders, none of which include the use of intrusive, coercive, violent, or restraining techniques or methods. O’Connor and Zeanah, in describing treatment for children with attachment disorders, and referencing the work of Dr. Hughes, seem to support Dr. Hughes’ approach. Daniel Siegel, MD, Associate Professor, UCLA School of Medicine [Los Angeles, California], and author of The Developing Mind, described the book that I co-edited about Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy as:

An informative assembly of chapters by people working on the frontlines to help children create the attachments that will help them thrive. Written from the point of view of what is practical and informed by new findings in science, the book will be of use to a wide array of caregivers and professionals. Here is a wealth of hard-won wisdom that will enrich the lives of many.

Physically intrusive methods; CRT use of restraint as a tool of treatment rather than as a safety device: Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy does not use physically intrusive or coercive methods. Nor is Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy a “holding therapy,” as defined by O’Connor and Zeanah. My informed consent document specifically identifies all intrusive and coercive behaviors as not therapeutic or part of treatment:

At The Center For Family Development we do not use wraps, compression hold, or holds that utilize provocative stimulation. The following are interventions that we DO NOT USE . . . . shaming a child or eliciting fear to get compliance. Coercing a child to engage in long or painful physical activities in order to get compliance or a response. Wrapping a child, lying on top of a child, “rebirthing,” or similar techniques. Interventions based on power/control and submission. Interventions that are based solely on compliance.

In addition, this informed consent document has been on my Web site http://www.center4familydevelop.com/informedconsent.htm for several years. Sir Richard Bowlby described dyadic developmental psychotherapy and the book that I coedited on this subject as:

A new paradigm for treating some of the most deeply troubled children in our society. One of the very few therapies that offers practical help to the most difficult to reach children and their families. The authors’ passion for this groundbreaking therapy, and their deep understanding of attachment theory and how to apply it, shines through. This book offers both hope and new therapeutic insights; it is inspirational and daunting, scientifically logical and deeply moving.

Having met Sir Richard Bowlby and having had the opportunity to discuss Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy in depth with him, his observations are well grounded in the facts.

Mercer’s article is a polemic, rather than a scientific, approach to the issues that are involved in the diagnosis and treatment of children with disorders of attachment. An example of such a scientific approach can be found in the special issue of Attachment and Human Development. Mercer is Chairwoman of Advocates for Children in Therapy’s (ACT) Professional Board of Advisors. ACT is an activist group with a limited focus on eliminating any treatment for children that uses attachment-based interventions.

I appreciate your giving me the opportunity to respond to the inaccuracies and misrepresentations in the Mercer article. I would also welcome the opportunity to respond to any questions that readers may have about Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy or the evaluation and treatment of children with disorders of attachment.

Sincerely,

Arthur Becker-Weidman
, PhD
Director, Center For Family Development, Williamsville, New York
Diplomate, American College of Forensic Examiners
Diplomate, American Board of Psychological Specialties in Forensic Psychology
Diplomate, American Board of Psychological Examiners in Child Psychology
Registered Clinician, Association for the Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children

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